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Monday, February 15, 2010

Relationships.

Well, despite there already being a previous post for today, I'd like to give everyone a quick update on my personal life and personal situation at the time being, just to help me get a bit off of my chest.
If I never did tell my loyal readers, I'm telling you now: I had a girlfriend, to whom I dated for about a month, maybe a month and a half; I lost track when everything began to go downhill.
I broke up with her recently for reasons I don't really wish to publicize (not that it's inappropriate, just that I feel like I'd be insulting her or breaching her privacy or something if I did, which wouldn't be very fair to either of us). I don't at all regret doing it, and I don't feel bad about it, due to the fact as I see it I had solid reason, and that theirs no point in brooding over something that's already over, but certain friends (not all of them), have become angry or upset with me for doing so. Although I can slightly understand one due to her being my ex's best friend, I don't understand the other few; I mean, is it really anyone's business or problem how our relationship went? It's not like I was rude or cruel when I did end it. If I had been, I can totally understand some social backlash, but I totally wasn't. I did it for good reason, and whether that opinion differs with other people shouldn't affect my friendship with them because it honestly is none of their business in the slightest.

The only way I get involved in someone elses relationship is if one or both are being treated badly, and one is being stepped all over by the other without doing anything about it; even then, it's not really my business. I only suggest to them what I would do in such a situation, and assist them in certain things regarding the relationship if truly need be. Outside of that, the outcome is not for me or anyone else to decide, and if I'm friends with both of the people in the relationship, I don't let it damage my friendship with either. So why would people get involved in my relationships, especially after everything is said and done?

Alongside that, I've also had one of those days where I feel society is rejecting me, albeit slightly, when I'm already slightly vulnerable. It hasn't taken me down too much.

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